ROBERT (MACITBETTER) It sounds like you might like the "direct extraction" that I added in BetterZip 1.8. It will show only a progress bar when you open an archive from the Finder and extract it, much like the built-in Archive Utility. Activate it in the preferences.
On the other hand, if you want to inspect the archive before extracting it, set the option "Default to 1-Click Extract" in the preferences. This will extract your archive next to the archive itself when you click the button in the toolbar.
(Version 1.8.1)