could you send me mail with your skype on nejc.landeker(at)siol.com so we can solve it faster?

I will send you my terminal output in 5 minutes :)

i did a fresh reinstall and when i start server it gets stuck at creatingt trinity database what should i do?

Nejc-Landekers-iMac-3:mysql Nejc$ ./scripts/mysql_install_db --user=$USER --datadir=$HOME/.emuxdb
Installing MySQL system tables...
120120 18:56:15 [ERROR] ./bin/mysqld: unknown option '--skip-locking'
120120 18:56:15 [ERROR] Aborting

120120 18:56:15 [Note] ./bin/mysqld: Shutdown complete


Installation of system tables failed! Examine the logs in
/Users/nejclandeker/.emuxdb for more information.

You can try to start the mysqld daemon with:

shell> ./bin/mysqld --skip-grant &

and use the command line tool ./bin/mysql
to connect to the mysql database and look at the grant tables:

shell> ./bin/mysql -u root mysql
mysql> show tables

Try 'mysqld --help' if you have problems with paths. Using --log
gives you a log in /Users/nejclandeker/.emuxdb that may be helpful.

Please consult the MySQL manual section
'Problems running mysql_install_db', and the manual section that
describes problems on your OS. Another information source are the
MySQL email archives available at http://lists.mysql.com/.

Please check all of the above before mailing us! And remember, if
you do mail us, you MUST use the ./bin/mysqlbug script!

that is what i get

and if i try different command

/Library/eMuxServer/mysql/bin/mysqld_safe --user=$USER --port=3309 --datadir=$HOME/.emuxdb

i get

Nejc-Landekers-iMac-3:mysql Nejc$ /Library/eMuxServer/mysql/bin/mysqld_safe --user=$USER --port=3309 --datadir=$HOME/.emuxdb
120120 18:57:53 mysqld_safe Logging to '/Users/nejclandeker/.emuxdb/Nejc-Landekers-iMac-3.local.err'.
120120 18:57:53 mysqld_safe Starting mysqld daemon with databases from /Users/nejclandeker/.emuxdb
120120 18:57:55 mysqld_safe mysqld from pid file /Users/nejclandeker/.emuxdb/Nejc-Landekers-iMac-3.local.pid ended

any idea how to fix this problem?